It is so easy! Make sure the member links are on your pages that people will normally visit. You can hide them way at the bottom your pages with smaller text of if you want to. You can split them up and put them on three different pages if you don't want too many links on one page.
Add our members links to your site. We will check. If we can't find them, no deal.
Now submit the below form. Give me a week or two to submit your link to member sites.